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A Strong Sense of Place linked to a piece on ocean-fed pools. I love these! I’m sure they exist in the US, but I’ve only seen them in Europe.

It’s the joy of being in the ocean without the fears of being in the ocean. A barrier allows water to flow into the enclosed swimming area, but people can’t get dragged out to sea by an undertow. The first place we ever saw one was in North Berwick, Scotland. I didn’t realize it was a thing in many places until we saw one the following year in St. Malo, France.

New vacation goals. Aim for ocean pools.

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Many months ago, when I was in the middle of a very stressful situation, I set up a half hour of “me” time. I usually work through lunch, but on Fridays, I would shut off the computer for a half hour, eat really good chocolate, drink tea, and re-watch a television show. That last part was important because I wanted the half hour to be pure enjoyment, so I would only re-watch things I enjoyed and not take chances with anything new.

Even after the situation ended, I kept up the ritual. It was a little thing to look forward to each week.

But with the kids home for summer, I needed to confess that (1) we had a hidden stash of really good chocolate in the house, (2) I took a half hour in the middle of the day to watch television, and (3) did I mention that the really good chocolate was in an undisclosed space that they would never be able to find or access?

They kind of couldn’t get over the chocolate thing. We generally share everything in the house. “Does Dad know?” they asked. Dad buys it for me. We go to the ex-pat stores and buy really good chocolate for my ritual.

I invited the twins to join me in “me” time, making it “us” time because it is delightful to take a break in the middle of the day and watch Good Omens for a half hour. (They didn’t love the whole stopping the episode in the middle and pointed out that it must take me months to finish a television season. It does.)

If you are also having a stressful time, schedule a weekly ritual. Put it on the calendar as a meeting. Hold it sacred. Buy good chocolate and tea.

This is the 950th Friday Blog Roundup. Maybe not quite as remarkable as the 1000th Friday Blog Roundup, but it still feels worth mentioning because that milestone (#1000) won’t happen for another three years. Three years? How is that possible?

Because at some point, the numbering got messed up, and this is actually the 850th Friday Blog Roundup, even though I left the messed up numbering, which says 950 instead of 850. Still, I feel like I should do something big next year to mark the fake 1000th Friday Blog Roundup.

I wish I had kept better records so I could roll out all kinds of cool stats. But I didn’t. So I guess it’s just onward.

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Stop procrastinating. Go make your backups. Don’t have regrets.

Seriously. Stop what you’re doing for a moment. It will take you fifteen minutes, tops. But you will have peace of mind for days and days. It’s the gift to yourself that keeps on giving.

As always, add any new thoughts to the Friday Backup post and peruse new comments to find out about methods, plug-ins, and devices that help you quickly back up your data and accounts.

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And now the blogs…

But first, second, helpings of the posts that appeared in the open comment thread last week. To read the description before clicking over, please return to the open thread:

• None… sniff.

Okay, now my choices this week.

Finding a Different Path talks about the benefits of knowing, even when diagnosed with PCOS. She doesn’t want the disorder, but the explanation explains so much. The same thing happened recently when she learned more about ADHD and realized that it might explain many things in her life. She writes, “There’s a lot to unpack for myself here. But also, it’s a relief. All the things that I felt shame and that caused me a great deal of anxiety are because my brain is different.” And later, “There’s so much power in starting from knowledge, even when it took 47 years to get to this epiphany.” Yessssss.

Lastly, Infertile Phoenix takes the term “spiraling” and points out how it can be a good thing. Spiraling can also move you deeply into something interesting or important to you. She is doing qualitative research with childless-not-by-choice individuals. She explains, “Instead of using numbers to describe things, qualitative research uses words (i.e., narrative data). Qualitative research can describe the experience of an individual or group.” It’s important work, and I’m grateful she is doing it.

The roundup to the Roundup: That’s a lot of Roundups. Your weekly backup nudge. And lots of great posts to read. So what did you find this week? Please use a permalink to the blog post (written between June 23 – 30) and not the blog’s main URL. Not understanding why I’m asking you what you found this week. Read the original open thread post here.

I opened the door to see if it was still raining, and there was a cup of bubble tea left on the top step with a plastic bag around it to protect it from the weather. A receipt was stapled to the bag with exactly zero pieces of helpful information. No name of the intended recipient. No address. Just the order details (bubble tea), the driver, and the cost ($10! For tea!).

Someone out there wanted a bubble tea badly enough to order it for delivery. And that person did not receive their bubble tea unless DoorDash sent them a new one.

It sat outside in the rain for five hours until Josh came home and disposed of it. I left it there in case someone roamed the neighbourhood, seeking their lost tea.

Have you ever received someone else’s order?

Once upon a time, I bookmarked a museum I wanted to visit in the area. At least, I thought I did. I haven’t been able to find the bookmark in any browser folder, but I have fallen down a rabbit hole of things I once believed I needed to be able to find again.

Recipes, Facebook profiles, websites with airline seat maps, and random board games I remembered from childhood. It’s like pawing through a massive junk drawer of information.

60% of the time, I wonder why I thought the link was important. 40% of the time, I am so happy to see the site again and remember the search that brought me there.

I’ve left all of the bookmarks in place so I can enjoy them again months from now when I can’t remember another thing and go searching for it.

P.S. Does anyone remember the small museum that I once mentioned? Not Planet Word. Something with historical artifacts. I vaguely remember that the museum was so small that only 12 people could enter at a time, and you needed a reservation to visit.