I have been trying to make a conscious effort to weekend better. I’m sure it won’t stick — life has a way of getting in the way of plans — but we’ve been able to string together a few weekends in a row of watching soccer, reading books, visiting friends or family, and eating uncomplicated meals. I felt so much better after we did it once that I’ve been trying to build it in, week after week.

It feels like weekends keep coming up as a theme. There was a piece on how weekends are important because everyone is off at the same time, so it’s a way to cement your network. And another in the Times on French Sundays, as opposed to British Sundays, which sound close to American Sundays.

The author writes:

One of my favourite expressions in French is faire la grasse matinée. It means “to lie in”, but translates literally as “to have a fat morning”. And that is truly the way to do it. This Sunday, why not give the French way a go? Turn off your alarm, go for a stroll with no destination in mind, stop at a coffee shop (no matter how cold the weather is, you must sit outside) and watch strangers go about their business. Go on, eat two croissants instead of just one. Dilly-dally.

That sounds lovely. Yes.

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WikiCommute randomly chooses an information rabbit hole to travel down based on the length of your commute, coupled with your reading speed. They build a continuous scroll of random Wikipedia content. Which could be a little dangerous, now that I think about it. Wikipedia is generally safe, but it’s poor practice to leave all curation of information going into your eyeballs to chance.

Nevertheless, it’s a fun idea of filling your commute with random knowledge vs. doomscrolling.

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If 1 dog year equals 7 human years, then a 14-year-old dog would be 98. That’s a very good, long life, and it wouldn’t be a shock (though it would be very sad) if it died. An 8-year-old dog, on the other hand, would be 56. That’s middle-aged, and you would expect (though may not always be lucky) that dog to live many more years.

I’ve been trying to figure out my phone’s age in mobile years. If most iPhones are unusable or dead within 8 years, we can set 1 mobile year to equal 14 human years. A 6-year-old mobile device would be 84. A 7-year-old device would be 98.

Our phones are not that old. Mine is about 4.5 years old, and Josh’s is about 5.5 years old. That would be 63 and 77 in human years. Not that old. Though it’s 63 and 77 years of rough, daily living. Like those devices are workhorses, whereas we have another device that is 98 years old in human years, though we use it less often, so maybe it will live longer?

The point: We are going back and forth on replacing our mobile devices. In the past, I was a run-that-device-into-the-ground kind of girl and only replaced things when they stopped working. But in recent years, I’ve become a replace-things-when-they-no-longer-help-you-do-a-task kind of girl. Our mobile devices are entering that era. Josh does not have a working home button anymore. My emails take 30 seconds to a minute to load. Our devices still have life in them, but they’re struggling. And part of me wants to get every last bit of use out of them, and part of me wants to replace them and have things be easy again. Part of me wants something that works exactly as I want it to work, and part of me doesn’t want to regret spending money on something unnecessary (and then not have that money for something necessary in the future).

It’s hard to know how much my decision is being influenced by the constant capitalist messaging that surrounds us, telling us that we need need need things that are new new new and better better better. And it’s hard to know how much my decision is annoying myself to push back against that messaging.

Quentin’s first birthday happened this week. He was super confused about our birthday lawlessness (unlimited treats! parsley with breakfast! head rubs all day long!) and now super confused that all of the birthday excitement went away. The best was when people FaceTimed him, and he stood on his hind legs, his mouth half open, staring at the screen with his ears flicking because he kept hearing his name but couldn’t see a person.

Look at this face:

Happy birthday, Quentin Aeneas.

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Stop procrastinating. Go make your backups. Don’t have regrets.

Seriously. Stop what you’re doing for a moment. It will take you fifteen minutes, tops. But you will have peace of mind for days and days. It’s the gift to yourself that keeps on giving.

As always, add any new thoughts to the Friday Backup post and peruse new comments to find out about methods, plug-ins, and devices that help you quickly back up your data and accounts.

And now the blogs…

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But first, second, helpings of the posts that appeared in the open comment thread last week. To read the description before clicking over, please return to the open thread:

• “Unexpected Disclosure” (Infertile Phoenix)

Okay, now my choices this week.

The Road Less Travelled has a very sweet story about a KitKat theft, which was her mother’s favourite candy. She even traveled with her own stash because apparently KitKats are different country to country. I love the idea that her mother orchestrated the heist from beyond.

Lastly, Bereaved and Blessed defines her year with a word every blogoversary, and she is on #19. I want to hear what led to improvising, but nonetheless, go wish her a happy blogoversary.

The roundup to the Roundup: Happy birthday, Q. Your weekly backup nudge. And lots of great posts to read. So what did you find this week? Please use a permalink to the blog post (written between April 10 – 17) and not the blog’s main URL. Not understanding why I’m asking you what you found this week. Read the original open thread post here.

As I say every month, I’m shamelessly stealing this idea from Jessica Lahey. She has a recurring monthly date where she reviews all the books she reads that month. Book reviews are important for authors, and I want to get better at doing this.

So. I’m going to review them here and also online, but I’m going to do it a little differently. I’m only going to review the stuff I really liked. I don’t see a reason to spend my time writing about something I didn’t love; it’s just using up more of my energy. So only positive reviews.

These are the books I liked (or mostly liked) from March.

Strangers (Belle Burden): I’m not normally a memoir person, but people were raving about this book. I am so glad I read it because at its heart, it is a story about a woman asking to be understood, known, seen. She is asking her experience to be seen through her eyes. She is a beautiful writer. I am so sorry this happened to her family, but I do think there is worth in using words to create bridges between people. And she has built bridges by sharing her story.

One of Us (Elizabeth Day): I waited a long time for this book, and it did not disappoint. You do not have to have read The Party to read this book. Any important plot points from that book are woven into this book. I liked every terrible character and got a sense that the author did, too. They stayed on the correct line of interesting/terrible without straying into the more common territory of pointless/terrible. It was such a good read.

How to Get Away with Murder (Rebecca Philipson): 5 stars for writing. 1 star for plot. I guessed the end by 8% through. I was certain by 12%. I continued reading, hoping I was wrong. I was correct. So. That was the mystery piece, which brings us to 3 stars. But the writing was good, and I was always interested to get back to the book. So an extra half star for holding my interest, and round the whole thing up to 4 stars.

The Pie & Mash Detective Agency (J.D. Brinkworth): On the show Taskmaster, Stevie Martin and Jason Mantzoukas named their team Javie Martzoukas. I think that every time I write J.D. Brinkworth because they are also a zany team of two writers. This book was delightful. In a world where the news seems to be awful 100% of the time, this book was a welcome break from reality. Loved all of the characters. Will definitely be on the lookout for future books from this duo.

Hot Young Royals (Katy Birchall): This one was a bit of a head scratcher. I normally think of Katy Birchall as “new adult” but this was definitely hard-drinking-cocaine-snorting-YA. It was sweet. And bubbly. It was teens behaving badly and then apologizing. It was mind candy — there will be zero surprises. But sometimes you need something safely sweet to read after the news. And this is it.

What did you read last month?