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1044th Friday Blog Roundup

Josh and I lean more towards brick-and-mortar shopping, but there are a few things we buy online, usually ordering more than we need at the moment, so we won’t have to place another order for a few months. Last week, we submitted two such orders from two different businesses, and both orders arrived with chunks missing from the sides of the products.

Before you ask, there were no marks on the shipping boxes. They arrived without a dent. But when I opened the two boxes, one item in each box had a U-shaped hole on the side. In one case, it was hair gel that was now coating everything else in the box. In the other case, it was guinea pig baby food, which was luckily dry but had spilled out of its packaging inside the box.

In both cases, the company sent a replacement. (Though the AI bot suggested that we send back the oozing hair gel until Josh requested to speak to a human that said, “Uh, no, please DON’T send that through the mail.)

I sense that this is our future. Instead of human hands placing items in the box or even a human looking into the box to make sure the robot hands didn’t puncture the items, we will now receive packages of oozing gel and spilled-out guinea pig baby food — all in the name of technology. And companies will find it cheaper to replace the wasted items instead of employing a human to make sure the machine can do what the machine promises to do.

Call me frustrated.

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Stop procrastinating. Go make your backups. Don’t have regrets.

Seriously. Stop what you’re doing for a moment. It will take you fifteen minutes, tops. But you will have peace of mind for days and days. It’s the gift to yourself that keeps on giving.

As always, add any new thoughts to the Friday Backup post and peruse new comments to find out about methods, plug-ins, and devices that help you quickly back up your data and accounts.

And now the blogs…

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But first, second, helpings of the posts that appeared in the open comment thread last week. To read the description before clicking over, please return to the open thread:

Okay, now my choices this week.

No Kidding in NZ builds off Middle Girl’s idea that now is not the time for accomplishments. She explains: “There is so much I need to do, but at the moment, surviving with some sanity intact is about all I can manage. Remembering to breathe. Treading water. And that’s okay.” Accomplishments are relative.

Lastly, The Road Less Travelled celebrated her 40th wedding anniversary. It’s an enormous accomplishment always — choosing one another year after year. Congratulations!

The roundup to the Roundup: I’m not ready for the robot overlords. Your weekly backup nudge. And lots of great posts to read. So what did you find this week? Please use a permalink to the blog post (written between July 4 – 11) and not the blog’s main URL. Not understanding why I’m asking you what you found this week. Read the original open thread post here.

6 comments

1 a { 07.11.25 at 12:54 pm }

My dogs barked like idiots at the FedEx guy who brought their food this week. This is what I now buy online, so I only have to carry it downstairs.

2 nicoleandmaggie { 07.11.25 at 2:04 pm }

We had that problem with two water heaters, though instead of having home depot replace them, the guy hired to install them sold us two from his shop which weren’t as good and cost more than twice as much. Probably not the right decision, but my husband was out of town and one of our water heaters was broken.

3 loribeth { 07.11.25 at 4:30 pm }

Anne Helen Petersen, on her Culture Study Substack, had a post about this a while back, about how things aren’t necessarily better with the Internet/apps/AI, etc. — she called it “ensh**ification” of everything, lol.

Thank you so much for featuring my post, and for the anniversary wishes! It means a lot. xoxo

4 Beth { 07.11.25 at 4:38 pm }

I echo your frustration. I try very hard to buy from physical stores, preferably those local to my small town (even if they’re technically a chain) but have really struggled recently with supply issues. I’ve had to order cat food and vitamins. Neither arrived damaged this time but I have heard so many stories like yours. I’m not prepared for the lack of humans.

5 Jess { 07.17.25 at 9:35 pm }

Grrr, that is frustrating. I hate when things are packaged poorly, and it makes me sad to think of all the humans who lost out to automation (and how much better humans are at so many things). 🙁

I loved Infertile Phoenix’s “July 4th Anniversaries,” for its wisdom on self-love, self-care, and boundaries: https://infertilephoenix.blogspot.com/2025/07/july-4th-anniversaries.html

6 Jess { 07.17.25 at 9:41 pm }

PS — also Klara at the Next 15000 Days’ post about a thoughtless comment and how she dealt with it in her own way:
https://thenext15000days.blogspot.com/2025/07/no-children-just-us-and-it-was-more.html

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