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901st Friday Blog Roundup

Every two weeks since the pandemic began, we’ve made a meal list. Everyone chooses between three and four dinners they want me to make, I compile the list, make a PDF of recipes, use it to write up a shopping list, and… well… as you’ve probably guessed, cook the meals. On one hand, it’s super useful. I’m never scrambling to figure out what to make in the afternoon. We limit trips to the grocery store. We have little food waste because I jenga the meals together so I can use up a rare ingredient the next day. It works. I mean, until it doesn’t work.

I’ve hit a wall of decision fatigue. Making the list has become my most dreaded task. I don’t know what I want to eat days in advance. No one else knows either. It has seeped into the rest of life. I am so tired of making decisions.

The solution is to give up the list making for a week or two. Allow myself to become more annoyed by the lack of structure. Go back to appreciating the system that has served us well for over two years.

Anything goes. Cereal for dinner. Pasta four days in a row. Cucumbers three meals per day.

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Stop procrastinating. Go make your backups. Don’t have regrets.

Seriously. Stop what you’re doing for a moment. It will take you fifteen minutes, tops. But you will have peace of mind for days and days. It’s the gift to yourself that keeps on giving.

As always, add any new thoughts to the Friday Backup post and peruse new comments to find out about methods, plug-ins, and devices that help you quickly back up your data and accounts.

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And now the blogs…

But first, second helpings of the posts that appeared in the open comment thread last week. To read the description before clicking over, please return to the open thread:

  • None… sniff.

Okay, now my choices this week.

We are all talking about Roe. Family Building with a Twist sums up what many of us are thinking/feeling: “Like many, I am appalled, devastated – choose your adjective – about today’s ruling by SCOTUS. And I wasn’t surprised. I read the released draft ruling and I knew how this court was going.” Just because you know something is coming doesn’t mean that you don’t feel it down to your bones when it happens.

Lastly, The Road Less Travelled has lots of odds and ends, but also links for the Childless Collective Summit. It’s online, and she provides a link to a review of last year’s summit. Go check it out.

The roundup to the Roundup: Decision fatigue. Apart at the Seams is on sale. Your weekly backup nudge. And lots of great posts to read. So what did you find this week? Please use a permalink to the blog post (written between June 24 – July 1) and not the blog’s main URL. Not understanding why I’m asking you what you found this week? Read the original open thread post here.

4 comments

1 Phoenix { 07.01.22 at 5:25 pm }

Two posts about the overturning of Roe v. Wade stood out to me this week. I resonated with The Barreness’s rage. https://the-barreness.blogspot.com/2022/06/gone.html And I feel like so many people do not think about pregnancy complications when it comes to the issue of abortion, so I really appreciated Mali’s heartfelt post. https://nokiddinginnz.blogspot.com/2022/06/losses-and-last-resorts.html

Then, on a different topic, I was happy to celebrate Slovenia’s 31st birthday with Klara. http://thenext15000days.blogspot.com/2022/06/happy-31st-birthday-slovenia.html

2 Sharon { 07.02.22 at 8:09 pm }

I found myself consumed with rage for most of the day when the Dobbs decision was announced. Even as someone who was raised a Roman Catholic and who (sorta) still considers herself a Christian, I don’t want to live in a Christian theocracy, and it looks like this is where our country is headed.

I vehemently disagree with the “pro-life” movement for so many reasons: their beliefs are based solely in religion, not in science, and I find it offensive that their beliefs should be imposed on everyone, even others who don’t share them. I think that they are really “pro-birth” because most who espouse these views don’t favor doing anything to help children who are already born. And I fear for the women in difficult/impossible situations who will suffer, physically and mentally, by having this right taken away, as well as resenting the implication that women aren’t full citizens with the inalienable right to make decisions about their own bodies. So yeah.

BTW, kudos to you for keeping up with meal planning! I hate it.

3 loribeth { 07.03.22 at 5:36 pm }

Thank you for the mention, Mel! I also appreciated Family Building’s post about the Supreme Court decision, as well as the ones mentioned by Phoenix, by the The Barreness and Mali at No Kidding in NZ. As Mali said, this decision diminishes women all over the world, not just Americans — although it’s American women who will be immediately affected. 🙁

I also loved Jess’s post at A Different Path, celebrating the end of school and the start of summer vacation — and especially the photo that goes with it! 🙂

https://findingadifferentpath.blogspot.com/2022/06/hello-summer.html

4 a { 07.28.22 at 5:16 pm }

I hit the wall of decision fatigue on food about a year ago. I was so tired of deciding what to eat all the time. I used to get a break by picking up carryout once a week, but we stopped doing that with the pandemic and have never really gotten back into the habit. Now, with one less person, I have even less interest in cooking. And when I do it, my daughter is all “I ate at work. I’m just going to have a salad.” Ugh.

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