We’ve been watching a show called Unacceptable, where comedians express and defend their unacceptable opinion. They poll the audience when the opinion is first stated to see how many agree, and then poll them after the comedian has defended their position to see if they’ve swayed any hearts. The opinions are usually ridiculous. It’s a lot of fun.

You know what isn’t a lot of fun?

Music at the beach. That’s my unacceptable opinion. I think music played in public from speakers (vs. privately via headphones) should be banned, or if it can’t be banned — because let’s face it, smoking is banned at the beach and so many people around us were smoking — there should be a silent section of the beach similar to the quiet car on a train.

Who is with me?

When I go to the beach, I want to hear the waves. I know I’m also going to hear children shrieking and people talking loudly, but I still want to be able to hear nature along with those sounds. We had a family set up next to us and start blasting folk music. This was a day after a person set up speakers to blast opera — OPERA! — across the sand. Anyway, the family was blasting folk music, and the boy between us turned on his phone and started blasting country music back at them, and they both kept turning up the volume until I picked up my chair and moved down to the water.

There are so many ways to privately enjoy music in public, and plenty of private spaces to enjoy music collectively. But listening to music from a speaker in public? I think it should be banned. That’s my unacceptable opinion.

It is so quiet on the internet and at work that it feels like the whole world collectively went on vacation. On one hand, it’s super helpful to have everyone away at the same time because then no one misses anything. On the other hand, it’s super difficult to have everyone away at the same time because nothing gets done.

By which I mean that I send a lot of emails that float off into the void.

I’m not great with slow. I like things to keep moving forward. Though I’m sure I’ll miss this pace when everyone returns from wherever they are.

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Stop procrastinating. Go make your backups. Don’t have regrets.

Seriously. Stop what you’re doing for a moment. It will take you fifteen minutes, tops. But you will have peace of mind for days and days. It’s the gift to yourself that keeps on giving.

As always, add any new thoughts to the Friday Backup post and peruse new comments to find out about methods, plug-ins, and devices that help you quickly back up your data and accounts.

And now the blogs…

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But first, second, helpings of the posts that appeared in the open comment thread last week. To read the description before clicking over, please return to the open thread:

• None… sniff.

Okay, now my choices this week.

The Road Less Travelled posts about World Childless Week and the daily topics. It’s the 10 year anniversary of the project. Go give it your support, whether you write a post or read.

Lastly, Scientist on the Roof writes about all the things we miss from our travels. Even if you don’t want to move, you can’t help but point to certain aspects of another country’s day-to-day life and say, “I wish we had that, too.”

The roundup to the Roundup: Summer slow down. Your weekly backup nudge. And lots of great posts to read. So what did you find this week? Please use a permalink to the blog post (written between August 14 – 21) and not the blog’s main URL. Not understanding why I’m asking you what you found this week. Read the original open thread post here.

Pixel Thoughts has been around for a while, and it’s pretty simple. You type out your worry, and it floats off into space while you’re reminded of how we’re insignificant. Which is true, but didn’t make my worries go away, even though I appreciated the perspective reminder.

But now it’s an app. You can still use the general version, but you can now personalize the messaging to your worry. You can turn on “auto” and allow it to choose what it thinks will be the best message, or tailor the message to one of acceptance or “this too shall pass.” You can choose how long you’d like the message to run (30 seconds to 3 minutes), and choose gentle music to play in the background. Or leave it random. It’s really up to you.

I found it went from a nice idea to a brilliant meditation tool. It has yet to say anything earth-shattering, but having what I sense to be true reinforced in a message has a calming effect. Yes, my brain knows that this worry is based on fear vs. fact, but having the app gently point that out and reframing the worry instead of asking my brain to come up with the same emotional response feels like having a little invisible friend supporting you for a minute.

If you like it, you may also like trying his other tool, which has you breathing with other people in the world at the same time. I found it oddly emotional.

If you get the app, get the correct one. The real one is made by Marc B. There are a bunch of fake knockoffs that look the same, but I have no clue what they do with your data.

Sometimes when I sit down to read, I open an app to check something quickly before I get started, or I Google something that has been on my mind so I can put it to rest and enjoy the book, and then I look up and a half hour of rabbit-hole scrolling has passed.

It happens.

Naomi Alderman, creator of Zombies, Run! and writer of numerous books, has started a Couch to 5K program for reading. She writes, “The whole point of Couch to 5k is that it picks an amount which is doable for a lot of people and tells you how to go from ‘I can’t do that yet’ to ‘now I can do it’!”

I keep seeing the program pop up in newsletters and on blogs, which makes me happy. I’m not happy because we need it, but because people clearly want to get back into reading. They want to concentrate again. They want to get lost in a story.

I love that she meets people where they are with the amount of time they have.

Passing this along in case anyone needs help bringing balance to screen time and reading time.

Not sure what #MicroblogMondays is? Read the inaugural post which explains the idea and how you can participate too.

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Did you know that Merriam-Webster (the dictionary people) has games? Like a lot of games, if you also count all of the games at Encyclopedia Britannica because they’re part of the same company? And some of them are a lot of fun?

I particularly like Tagline. And I thought I would like Victordle, where you play against other people in solving Wordle first, except the first person I paired with guessed it in one try, which made me think it was rigged. I tried again, and we worked together to get to the correct word.

Take a look at the long list on the left sidebar.

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Are you also doing #MicroblogMondays? Add your link below. The list will be open until Tuesday morning. Link to the post itself, not your blog URL. (Don’t know what that means? Please read the three rules on this post to understand the difference between a permalink to a post and a blog’s main URL.) Only personal blogs can be added to the list. I will remove any posts connected to businesses or sponsored posts.