I love libraries.  I got married in a library.  I walked down the middle aisle between the stacks on either side.

I visit my library regularly.  I go at least once a week to return or grab books, but I also go on bad days when I need to clear my head for a few minutes.  I just like being near books, even if I don’t take any home with me.

So I wholeheartedly love this idea of being a library tourist and visiting libraries around the world.  We like taking the kids to popular libraries — tourist destination libraries — but I also really love going into small, local libraries.  I usually like the small, local libraries more because the librarians talk to you and you get a sense of the area.  This would be your library if you lived there.

Do you visit libraries in places you visit?

Not sure what #MicroblogMondays is? Read the inaugural post which explains the idea and how you can participate too.

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A professor set up his out-of-work message with a caveat.  Any emails sent between the dates he was gone would be deleted by the server.  The sender received a message instructing them to re-send the email again after an assigned date.  In other words, the professor returned to inbox zero, the same way they left for their vacation, and the burden to resend was on the sender.  He reasoned that if it was an important message, the person would resend.  And if they didn’t, he had to accept that fact in order to avoid being buried under email when he returned to work.

I kind of love this and I kind of hate it at the same time.  I think it’s brilliant AND it would depend on the person whether I resent the message.  I would really really really need to get the message through to play along.

What would you do?

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40% of your work time is spent toggling between the task demanding your focus and a communication tool such as email or Slack.  That would be like having someone stand next to your desk and ask you a question every other minute.  Can you imagine?  (I’m sure some of you can imagine because you have someone at work who asks you a question every other minute.)

According to a study: “Once you check an email, it takes you an average of 64 seconds to resume your original task. Even worse, another study found that when an email involves doing something outside our inbox, it takes over 9 minutes to return to the original task.”

I now think about this before I send an email or Slack message.  I am dragging someone out of productive thought.  So it better be worth it; it better be an email that they need to receive vs. something I could figure out on my own.  It’s interesting to see how many fewer messages you send when you think, “I am dragging someone out of their work to see this” before writing.

Do you leave communication tools open while you work?  Have you ever tried turning off email and all notifications for stretches of time?

700 Roundups.  Okay, really 600 Roundups because the Roundups got misnumbered along the way, but it’s still an impressive feat.  I’ve only missed around 10 Roundups in the last 12 years.  And if I highlight — on average — four posts per Roundup, that means I’ve highlighted about 2,400 posts.

Remember, next week, we’re marking this milestone with a little online party.  Bring a single post (your own or someone else’s post) to share with everyone else.  You’ll add them via the comment section so you also have space to explain why you chose that particular post.  So get choosing.

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Stop procrastinating.  Go make your backups.  Don’t have regrets.

Seriously.  Stop what you’re doing for a moment.  It will take you fifteen minutes, tops.  But you will have peace of mind for days and days.  It’s the gift to yourself that keeps on giving.

As always, add any new thoughts to the Friday Backup post and peruse new comments in order to find out about methods, plug-ins, and devices that help you quickly back up your data and accounts.

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And now the blogs…

But first, second helpings of the posts that appeared in the open comment thread last week.  In order to read the description before clicking over, please return to the open thread:

• “And Now We Are Four” (With Every Heartbeat)
• “No Fast Forward Button to Healing” (No Kidding in NZ)
• “Alloparents” (Stirrup Queens) — thank you, Jess!

Okay, now my choices this week.

One of the nicest things about the Internet is finding two unrelated people both sharing the same sweet moment.  (This happens all the time with birthdays on Facebook.)  Inconceivable has a post about her 13th anniversary.  I love it for this line: “As far as creative and collaborative endeavors go, I think it’s a success so far, that we still wake up and wouldn’t want to do this with anyone else.”  Sounds like a success to me.  And then Searching for Our Silver Lining has a post about her 14th anniversary.  I love it for this line: “Because before the one before the four there is almost a quarter of a lifetime’s worth of memories, crazy stories that bring about belly laughs and moments that still bring tears to my eyes.”  And for both, I love the behind-the-scenes glimpses into a life.  Congratulations!

Risakerlake answers anything about cycling again after a failed cycle.  She admits that she feels like she’s in the minority in moving on to the next cycle as quickly as possible.  She writes, “Sometimes I think I’m in the minority when it comes to this because the first thing I wanted to do after a failed cycle was get right on to the next one.”  As she says, there isn’t one way to do it — everyone needs to choose what fits their heart (and budget and body).  But it’s an interesting question — how one chooses what to do next.

Not a Wasted Word has a post about watching the Handmaid’s Tale, calling it misery porn.  I’m not watching this season — at least, not yet — though I went through a similar struggle in identifying with Serena Joy despite also despising Serena Joy in season one.  She’s infertile.  She’s a horrible human being.  It feels awful to identify with her.

Lastly, Lavender Luz opens up a discussion on the border situation with an analogy used to explain adoption, especially as adoption is offered up as a solution to the immigration crisis.  She writes, “As long as the prevailing adoption narrative leads people to believe adoption is Win/Win, we will keep acting as though parents ARE interchangeable. As we know from the switcheroo scenario above, that is not true.”  It’s a post that offers a lot of food for thought.

The roundup to the Roundup: 700 (okay, 600) Roundups! July 6th — Roundup celebration (be there or be square).  Your weekly backup nudge.  And lots of great posts to read.  So what did you find this week?  Please use a permalink to the blog post (written between June 22nd and 29th) and not the blog’s main url. Not understanding why I’m asking you what you found this week?  Read the original open thread post here.

Which do you find scarier: zombies, clowns, or ghosts?  I ask because I was surprised reading an Atlantic article about fear.  Vote on the scariest one before clicking over to see the article.

(Click “see previous responses” if you want to see how other people are answering)

That wasn’t actually the most interesting part of the article.  Nor was learning the term “trypophobia” which is “the fear of closely clustered circles.”  It was this idea of our fears backfiring:

In the wake of 9/11, airplane ridership plummeted in the United States as many people opted to travel by car. A German psychologist estimated that in the 12 months following the attacks, 1,595 more people were killed in car accidents than would be expected in an ordinary year.

So people stopped flying, deeming it unsafe.  But they still had to get from Point A to Point B, so they circumvented their fear by taking a different mode of transportation.  And in the end, their cause of death was due to the thing they did to get around their fear.  That’s simplifying it because their cause of death was a car accident, and maybe that car accident occurred while they were driving somewhere they wouldn’t have flown.  But at least some of those accidents occurred because the person opted to drive instead of fly because they were scared to fly after 9/11.

I think about this a lot because I do many things to circumvent my irrational fears.  It is scary to think that one of them could be my undoing.

Great… now I have a new thing to fear.

Do you do things to circumvent your fears?  Or do you plow through them?