There is a six-word line on page 281 in Ian McEwan’s book, What We Can Know, that I can’t stop thinking about:

“Nearly all of life is forgotten.”

You lived yesterday, and you can probably reconstruct a handful of moments here and there from memory. You know you were at work (maybe), and you know what sorts of things happen at work, but really remembering what you were doing minute to minute in your day is impossible. You’ve forgotten nearly all of your day.

If you jump back a few days, a few weeks, a few months, you’ve forgotten more and more and more. You take a trip, and you remember the highlights of the trip. You may even be able to answer specific questions about your time at a site if someone prompts you with questions, but overall, you’ve lived it and you’ve forgotten it.

I spend so much time worrying that I’m forgetting things, writing down lists so nothing falls through the cracks, bullet-journalling my existence. And along the way, I didn’t notice that I was forgetting anyway.

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Clues by Sam is one of those games that you can pick up and play for a moment when you’re in between things. It’s a logic puzzle where you have a board of 20 people, and you have to figure out which ones are innocent and which ones are criminals based on the clues revealed in the game. So, for instance, the first clue could be, “There are no innocents between Larry and Hilda.” You look and see that Adam is between Larry and Hilda, so you can mark him as a criminal.

It gets progressively more difficult during the week, but it’s hard to get stuck because you can always get hints.

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Last week, we were driving home from a work trip and realized we were on a road close to the ocean. We pulled off at the first town I recognized by name and parked at the end of the boardwalk in the public lot, intending to have a quick walk near the water before heading home.

As we were walking to the beach, we noticed a group of young adults leaning against a nearby car applying zombie makeup. What fun! They had decided to mark Halloween a few weeks early.

We got up to the boardwalk and noticed a shambling family, all splattered with fake blood. Interesting. So it seems like more people had the idea to celebrate Halloween in early October.

We took a few steps through an open-air indoor mall to continue on the boardwalk and emerged into a crowd of over 1,000 people, ALL DRESSED AS ZOMBIES. There were multiple zombie Santas, four zombie Marilyn Monroes, and a whole crew of zombie construction workers. There were also four random people holding signs and shouting that everyone was going to hell, plus a steampunk man riding a penny farthing with a bubble machine on the back. People were staring at us and our lack of costumes.

We had inadvertently stumbled into a yearly zombie walk, and it was just through strange luck that we showed up on the early end of things and were able to grab parking. By the time we left, we had to inch our way through the traffic out of town.

A very strange outing.

Yesterday was Super Thursday, which is when many many many books are published in the UK ahead of the holiday season. In case you never noticed, the US releases new books on Tuesdays, and the UK releases new books on Thursdays. I’m sure we have something similar to Super Thursday in the US, though Googling “Super Tuesday” takes you to political articles, but I buy a lot of books from the UK, so I’m particularly excited to read all the book newsletters going out this weekend.

It kind of feels like a big online party for books.

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Stop procrastinating. Go make your backups. Don’t have regrets.

Seriously. Stop what you’re doing for a moment. It will take you fifteen minutes, tops. But you will have peace of mind for days and days. It’s the gift to yourself that keeps on giving.

As always, add any new thoughts to the Friday Backup post and peruse new comments to find out about methods, plug-ins, and devices that help you quickly back up your data and accounts.

And now the blogs…

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But first, second, helpings of the posts that appeared in the open comment thread last week. To read the description before clicking over, please return to the open thread:

• None… sniff.

Okay, now my choices this week.

Infertile Phoenix marks 9 years of blogging. She writes: “Nine years and five days ago I took the plunge and published my first blog post. I had been thinking about blogging for awhile and decided to do it. I was extremely lonely and looking for connection. I hope what I have shared here has helped someone, but I think that what I have received here is exponentially more than what I’ve given.” It’s the same thing that drives a lot of us to set up our site, and I love our little corner of the internet. Congratulations, Infertile Phoenix.

Lastly, No Kidding in NZ has a post about childless perks. She talks about something I hadn’t thought about before: “The thing is, many of the perks that I used to think about are largely irrelevant now that I am older. On a daily basis, my life is not much different to those friends of mine who have children.” While it’s true that lives that diverged begin to look similar again, she still notes a difference and provides food for thought.

The roundup to the Roundup: Perusing the books this weekend. Your weekly backup nudge. And lots of great posts to read. So what did you find this week? Please use a permalink to the blog post (written between October 3 – 10) and not the blog’s main URL. Not understanding why I’m asking you what you found this week. Read the original open thread post here.

On the topic of sudden restaurant closures, I remembered a Facebook post I bookmarked a few weeks ago because I found it touching.

The restaurant posted about a celebration of life held in the space for a restaurant regular. I never thought about being a regular from the opposite side: that restaurant employees (or bookstores or salons or wherever you are a regular) miss us as much as we miss them. That they not only notice the regulars and greet them when they come in, but they mourn them when they’re gone. Community flows both ways.

And I never thought about that before.