Category — Microblog Mondays

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I finished the first book in the Crazy Rich Asians trilogy, and then put myself down on the waiting list for the second book at the library.  This was a huge mistake.  There are dozens of people ahead of me, and zero chance that I’ll remember how everyone connects by the time it’s my turn at the library.  I should have gotten on the wait list the moment I got the first book.

You live and you learn.  And then you visit the bookstore and buy.

I usually don’t read series straight through.  I’ll read one book, then I’ll read something else.  Then I’ll return and read the next book, and then maybe read two more books after that before I dive into the third one.  I can’t think of any series that I’ve sat down and read start to finish without anything else in between — at least, not on the first read through.  On subsequent read throughs, I tend to go back-to-back.

Do you read a series in one go if they’re all out*, or do you skip around and keep revisiting the series with breaks in between?

* Clearly, if the books aren’t released yet, you can’t read them in one go.

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Pascal said, “All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.”  All?  I’d probably argue over the word “all” since it makes a lot of assumptions about humanity’s capacity to create or solve problems.  But it is a value skill: to sit alone with your thoughts and no other distractions.

I am pretty good with this even if I struggle with meditation.  I can sit quietly with my thoughts easier than I can clear my mind of thoughts.

Like I can sit in silence on a bus for hours and stare out the window.  Or in a room; I’m good in a room with complete silence and a good wall to stare at.  No one taught me how to do this; it just naturally occurred.  I remember driving cross-country as a child and staring out the car window for days on end without a need for a Walkman or book.

And the twins are pretty good with this, too — especially the ChickieNob.  I didn’t teach them; they just started doing it.  But as I move through all of these attention-building or bettering exercises this year, I keep wondering if this is something that can be taught.  That should be taught.  Should we teach people how to sit silently without distraction for long periods of time?

Are you good at being alone with your thoughts and no distractions?

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I don’t have a lot of regrets.  There are things I wish had been possible, like going to Harvard (I didn’t have the grades) or studying abroad junior year (I would have had to let go of two awesome jobs to do so — no way).  But those aren’t regrets because I understand that they were either out of the realm of possibility (I’m just never going to be Queen of a small nation) or the trade-off made it not worth it. (They were really awesome jobs.)

Yet I was still interested in a recent article in the Guardian about regret that I think a lot of other people will be interested in, too, if you missed it the first time around.  This sums up the main idea:

A distinction between what they call the “ideal self”, the person you’d be if you fulfilled all your goals and ambitions, and the “ought self”, the person you’d be if you met your obligations to others, and lived a morally upright life. Overwhelmingly, they found, people regret ideal-self failures – in short, not pursuing your dreams – more than ought-self failures, such as failing to visit a dying relative or cheating on a spouse.

Go read the whole article and then let me know, what are your regrets?

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There was a statement made in one of the Second Helpings on the last Roundup that I can’t stop thinking about.  The person said that they always order what they want in a restaurant and never look at the cost.  They go to restaurants within their price range, and once they’re there, they allow themselves whatever they want to eat, even if it’s the most expensive item they’re considering getting.

This isn’t how I order at all.

I only look at menu prices after I’ve narrowed down what I want to eat.  I’m a vegetarian so my meal is rarely expensive in comparison to the other things on the menu, but if one pasta option costs $11 and another costs $16, I’ll go with the $11 one.  Even if I sort of wanted the $16 one more.  Mostly because once I put it in terms of “do I want this enough to warrant the extra $5?” the answer is usually no.

If it was yes, I would get it.  But it rarely is.

Do you look at prices in restaurants that you can generally afford?

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This blew my mind: every yes is also a no.  When you say yes to something, you are, invariably, saying no to other things.  Usually those other things are not a sacrifice or missed at all.  But sometimes they are, so you have to consider all the noes (the plural of no!) if you’re a person who says yes a lot.

Saying yes to writing this post means saying no reading a book.  Hanging out with the twins.  Cleaning the house.

That definitely makes me rethink how I approach saying yes.

Think back to your last yes.  What did you say no to?

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