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1042nd Friday Blog Roundup

Many many (many many many) months ago, multiple branches from an enormous pine tree behind our house fell off and exploded in our backyard. The tree owner repaired the fence and patio. We have not yet figured out what we’re doing about replacing the plant that was killed in the fall.

We’ve been asking for years for the tree to be taken down because it looked ill and leaned over our house with each storm. If it fell altogether, it would land on the house. They finally agreed to take down the tree.

A crew showed up on Monday and climbed the tree, first taking off the limbs and chopping down the trunk as they climbed down. My stomach was in knots for them. But in a few hours, the tree was gone, leaving only wood dust in the backyard.

I’m sad about the tree but also relieved. This tree freaked me out for eleven years.

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Stop procrastinating. Go make your backups. Don’t have regrets.

Seriously. Stop what you’re doing for a moment. It will take you fifteen minutes, tops. But you will have peace of mind for days and days. It’s the gift to yourself that keeps on giving.

As always, add any new thoughts to the Friday Backup post and peruse new comments to find out about methods, plug-ins, and devices that help you quickly back up your data and accounts.

And now the blogs…

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But first, second, helpings of the posts that appeared in the open comment thread last week. To read the description before clicking over, please return to the open thread:

  • None… sniff.

Okay, now my choices this week.

Finding a Different Path writes about balancing the safety of sticking to your comfort zone to the excitement of new adventures and how the outside world sometimes impacts those decisions — from the huge (world stress) to the personal (avoiding the “family friendly” spaces and all that they bring). As someone who thoroughly enjoys going back to places and loves the lack of stress that comes with knowing a place, I stand behind this 100%.

Lastly, The Next 15000 Days thought she lost a part of herself, but it was there all along. Sometimes you need to go out into the world to get that reminder that side of you was with you all along.

The roundup to the Roundup: Goodbye tree. Your weekly backup nudge. And lots of great posts to read. So what did you find this week? Please use a permalink to the blog post (written between June 20 – 27) and not the blog’s main URL. Not understanding why I’m asking you what you found this week. Read the original open thread post here.

2 comments

1 a { 06.27.25 at 6:56 pm }

Goodbye tree! Glad that is off your mind. Don’t plant ornamental grass.

2 Jess { 06.30.25 at 8:17 pm }

Thanks for the mention!
I’m glad that tree is down. It is always sad to see a tree go, but holy moly a tree gone bad can do a lot of damage. Tree people are amazing in how they go up and have the ropes and harnesses and it looks so scary but to them it’s just another day at work! We had a tree that leaned at our old house, and for some bizarre reason I thought “it’s growing downward, how odd!” but really it was tipping over and hit our garage when it fell (not terribly though, mostly gutter). Scarily, just recently there was a tree that looked like it was leaning over the road we take to get pretty much anywhere, and the town was cutting down trees on public property but left that one, and IT TOTALLY FELL RIGHT IN FRONT OF BRYCE’S CAR during a rain storm. Right across the road. Yipes! So yeah, lean-y trees, byebye!

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