Mother’s Day Move It
Mother’s Day didn’t work with the twins’ schedule this year — finals — and nothing is more important than their studies (except their health), so we moved it to a better date on the calendar.
You can do that. You can take any pretend or real holiday, and just move it. Or change it. Or decide not to acknowledge it. Or go all-in.
I mean, it helps if everyone has the same expectation and is on board with the move, but assuming they are, you can literally decide to celebrate Christmas in February, Thanksgiving one week early, or your birthday in a random month.
Is it lovely to mark the actual day? Of course. I will be celebrating my mother today. But it’s also fun to be the only one celebrating something while everyone else believes it to be a random Tuesday.
Whether you are marking the day or avoiding the day, happy Sunday.
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Yes! I love to do this. We celebrated with my mom and my mil yesterday because it’s just so much more relaxing. No one else is out to eat.
No one else is trying to juggle schedules. Admittedly my mom is more ok with this than my mil but there’s only so much we can worry about. I still think she had a nice lunch with us and that should be what matters.
Dh took me for brunch on Friday — much less crowded/crazy than it would have been on Sunday! And brunch is much less expensive than dinner out. 😉
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