Comments on: Musical Therapy

By: katd

katd — Sat, 14 Jul 2007 02:58:00 +0000

It’s the hardest thing to try to figure out which path will lead you to your baby. I wish more than anything that it wasn’t so frustrating. I’ve said it a million times, but I laugh and roll my eyes at the old “me” who was soooo nervous I’d get pregnant “accidentally.” HA!

I’m thinking of you, Mel, and sending TONS of good wishes:)

By: Bea

Bea — Thu, 12 Jul 2007 07:43:00 +0000

I wish I had that crystal ball for you. Since I don’t, I’ll just wish you best of luck with the song.

Bea

By: KarenO

KarenO — Wed, 11 Jul 2007 09:40:00 +0000

“It literally comes down to the fact that I can’t sense what will happen next.” I can so relate to that. Uncertainty eats at your heart and soul when you need it the least!

“I wish that my life was like a little advent calendar working my way towards holding that child.” That sentence of yours made me cry… Why does it have to be so difficult?

Thinking of you!

By: grad3

grad3 — Wed, 11 Jul 2007 02:23:00 +0000

My other post to you didn’t post but… I know the feelings of irritation/ frustration. I can’t tell you the number of times I said, “If someone would just tell me when or how I was going to get my baby, I would be okay.” It’s whole not knowing thing that drives me insane since I am a planner by nature.

I just want you to know that I know egg-actly what you mean

By: grad3

grad3 — Wed, 11 Jul 2007 02:19:00 +0000

Just saw the ‘Aunt Jane’ video… LOVED IT!!! It made me laugh, that’s always good

From the videos and your post it sounds like you are really into music. You should look at the book Tao of Music, I saw in the B&N a couple weeks back. I couldn’t afford to buy it but it had some good stuff in there.

By: decemberbaby

decemberbaby — Wed, 11 Jul 2007 01:47:00 +0000

It’s so frustrating that we don’t get to be omniscient. Whose idea was that?

But am I the only one who’s excited to see your next movie and song? BTW, if you ever want to import a high voice, I could always record for you on GarageBand and then upload somewhere. If you want. But you sing beautifully.

By: Patience

Patience — Tue, 10 Jul 2007 22:38:00 +0000

I do understand your frustrations – and know only too well the feeling!
And do share your morose posts, that’s what we’re here for…. x

By: megan

megan — Tue, 10 Jul 2007 22:18:00 +0000

the guessing and the second and third guessing….it’s horribly tiresome and frustrating. i’m sorry your feeling it so acutely right now. take care of yourself and when you and Jeff are ready, you can decide what “second choice” means to you. regardless, the two of you will be moving forward…
you should post your moodier posts. it’s a great way to let some of those emotions go, as you know.
good luck, Mel. thinking of you!

By: Ann

Ann — Tue, 10 Jul 2007 21:27:00 +0000

Ah, the adoption or IVF question. I’ve thought about that a lot, too. If it got to that point, I would SO go for adoption if I knew that IVF would be more emotional and physical pain than it was worth–with an uncertain outcome. When you find your fairy godmother, send her my way, too!

By: serenity

serenity — Tue, 10 Jul 2007 21:08:00 +0000

"I wish I knew if I was making the right choices."

G-d knows I'm in the same boat. Guessing and then second guessing the next steps - never knowing which is the right path to take.

I think, though, in the end - it doesn't matter. Whichever path you take, it's going to be the right one. It's the choosing part that's hard.

*HUG* I'm thinking of you, hon.